We click in everything even sharing the birthday but now the problem is he got a girlfriend of 4years and they look happy, all the time when Im with him the girl will call and disturbing us after that I would feel okay. He is also very stubborn, and when I try to talk about my future career, he doesnt support me in that.His parents also dont seem to like me too well, even though I continue to be nice to them. And i just cant figure it out. Someone who is serious about their walk with God will not talk about or tempt your purity in any way. Ive always wanted to stay celibate till I marry but he doesnt feel the same way. But I cant be sure. If you feel like you have to give up on your calling to be with him, then it means the relationship is not aligned with Gods purpose for you. That man isnt a Christian at all. he texted me 1st and every since we been kicking texting like crazy being on the phone for hrs @ a time, but I wanna know is he the one GOD end to me!? Situationship Meaning, Signs & Rules! Enjoy getting to know each other while guarding your heart. We love the outdoors and spend every free moment in the mountains. I cant go back to my country now cos Im still tied up with school and I intend on staying where I am. Thanks for sharing, the man I am with now has all this quality but I dont love him, what do I do, Hi I read this 10 things if this is your partner that God has for me and i do understand. Everything seems to work out for your good (Romans 8:28): When God is leading you to the one, you will notice that the right doors are opening and the wrong doors are closing. TRUE.

When I look at him, I see me, us! One day i decided to give up on the relationship but i have a hard time completely letting go it go i guess 10years with a person is a long time . Help please. Is our relationship doomed because we started without God? We just started biblical counseling as this is super important to me. But i didnt notice him i had met another men at the time and was too inlove with this men. Yes, I think that is an easy sign that he is not aligned with God (yet). And allow God to lead you to the right one. Now Im on track with God. Its when we are too obsessed with a specific outcome and the fulfillment of our own will that we miss out on hearing from Him. Thank you for sharing. And I desire sex and affections from other men. He will send you signs that will help you know whether you are on the right path or not. Sometimes a persons past scars can have a bearing on their beliefs, they just dont understand about God. Very encouraging blog !! He respects hes kind and loving, I met a guy 10 years ago at church we started to know each other he wanted more but he wasnt my type i just saw him as abrother in the Lord,He tried to show me he really likes me back than to excent of helping me chase my dreams because he has big connections I believe in sexual purity before marriage as it is a mark of being justified by your faith and truly desire to serve god. It starts with all the different words we use to describe our relationship status. Now this is something you will need to pray about and make sure that God is allowing you guys to be together its very important because I have seen situations where a woman tries to attend and practice the same beliefs as the husband but the wife didnt feel like she fit in husband (baptist) and wife (apostolic) the Husband didnt like the apostolic movement and wife felt like baptist isnt radical enough for her so just an idea of what unequally yoked up with someone who isnt in the same belief can cause the two of you to have problems later. This list makes it easier to see when a man is not right for you. Blessings, Justine. Do you think I should talk about this again with my boyfriend? He is so humble and has integrity and makes time when he can but it is very hard. The second one of the signs God wants you to be with someone is that the man you are dating is your answered prayer. hi dear, I broke up with my ex a month ago, its a guy I dated for more than two years but all through the time we dated, there were so many misunderstandings as he isnt genuinely born again as our beliefs contradict each other.. but last week i got a call from a guy who i know through my ex boyfriend, he is a friend but we not close like that, he had liked me since I was younger but I never said yes not until last week he made his desire known to me that he wants to marry me and he still likes me a lot that he feels in his spirit I am the one for him, he has almost all the qualities u mentioned here but I dont seem to love him, though I like him but it isnt deep and I noticed though he is spiritually sound but isnt stable or consistent yet.. I have got so much from this post You can tell that the season you are in is anointed by God. That is not glorying God. SO.

I understand we all are a working progress. A non-believer to Christians is someone that does not believe in Jesus Christ. The problem is that we live in different states, we speak different language (he speak Arabic and I speak albania, the problem is that I dont very well english and we dont speak together cause I dont speak him. And every time you mention a celebrity name he rolls his eyes. Often I want to give up, but again pray because I say God will answer us. I truly love him as my friend, and pray God opens his heart to see what is right in front of him. He is 30, I am 21.

I always saw him as a friend in the past, and we had a great connection. At a party one night, we were both drunk and ended up kissing. Which bothered me but maybe is not a big deal. These are facts that you stated and sadly for me,the man I thought(well my guts feeling doesnt completely agree)was for me,Id say God already ended the relationship because hes clearly not the one! So if you can confide in him and love seeing yourself through his eyes, then he might just be the one that God has for you. Hey Trish, Im so glad you found this post and it served you. I like most everything else about him, except for a few things that seem to be physical. Right on on all points. I regret that we moved in together so soon. Hi Mike, one thing I know is that for every territory that you operate have their rules..if you are a devoted and committed christian who is in a relationship and you end up having sex even if its by a mistake,your problems begins there. both of our marriages ended from our spouses walking out so we believe we can remarry. Do they match? Usually, thats when I run to the bathroom, ask the holy spirit to take over and remove all sharp objects around #keepingitreal. this blog provided me a confirmation that he is not the one or Gods best for me. Hey Tasia, it sounds to me like you might be holding on to someone who is trying to get away. The truth is the best relationships are the ones where the couple considers each other as best friends and truly share their lives. But I dont know if it was out of love, or because he was too comfortable and lazy to start over with someone else. If the real him is nothing like the person you first met, however, then this is your sign from God that he is not the one. Our downs have been verbally abuse (screaming), lies and I also found out he was talking to his ex. But he quickly followed and accepted Jesus, and wants to be saved too. and the same time though he claimed to be a Christian he talks about his dirty fantasies which somehow sully my mind and cause me to have some weird dreams he has some of the qualities that you talked about but he lacks number 5 and that is the most important point for me and I have been specific to God about this point. He takes me to church. I agree with all of these, especially the action speak louder then words and pursuing you. Then again, is this man just pining for me? He says he is convicted too but I wonder why he doesnt come to me and apologize for leading us into sin? We hope that he will change his mind and commit. If this is the case then youre feelings are self generated and not God generated and your up for allot of hurt by continuing this. Amen. Or is he preoccupied with work and other things? I knw a young man 4 abt 3years bt i became emotionally attracted to hm by september,last year,2020. He takes you out to your favorite restaurants. His life just began and our dreams fate god has spoken. Idk if its from god and I prayed to god asking him to weed out anyone in my life that is not from him or of him and this person is still there so I know they are there for a reason or a lesson or a blessing I just dont know which. Lionel has been to my uni church and really enjoyed it. Is this going to cause problems for us? We were dating before around 2018 but due to somethings I did and said we stop now after three years he asked me to be his girlfriend and ask me to marry him. As I know u brought us together be husband wife. So every relationship you find yourself in should serve that purpose. But how can you be sure, if he doesnt even know what he wants? Pray 4me as I know god brought Joseph into my life. He doesnt care about taking you out anymore and prefers getting McDonalds drive-thru for every date. Im so confused on whether I should let him go or not because I dont want to regret it later on in life? Thanks! Am I a terrible person for thinking this? IS. Hi Cheryl, thank you so much for sharing this with me. The one God has for you will have a similar desire for God as you. He tried to stop her from leaving, but once she left and took everything, he fell for me hard and never got over me, even 10 years later. Thank you. If the guy you are dating keeps telling you how much he misses you but never makes time to meet, something is off. I needed to hear this! My boyfriend is almost six years older than me, but we had an instant connection after meeting through a mutual friend. And while I do believe that the way to finding the one is by putting in time and effort, I also know that there are ways you can be more effective. Hello there, God may be placing a calling for marriage on your life, but you can feel confident that he would never ask or expect you to disobey/disregard his principles for marriage in the process. 2 years so far have been best minutes off my life. As your father and protector, God is constantly speaking to you. If a relationship is not drawing us closer to God, it is drawing us further. We are best friends. These habits might seem small, but if hes overly secretive around you its an obvious sign that hes hiding bigger things from you. Can you give me an advice or suggestion concering situation? Asides serving u. Out of the blue everything changes. Three months down the line, we both met up in France, having stayed in contact the whole time we were apart. Therefore a very simple way to know Gods will in a relationship is to analyze whether the relationship aligns with Gods purpose for your life. Ive been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half and struggle with anxiety. with that said he looked my way and so did I.idk if that was the right time to exchange numbers but I did after I left off the premises of the lords house. And whenever he has exciting news to share or something to talk about you are the first person that he contacts. But no moni. Take a deep breath and rest assured that if he is interested in you, shy or not, he will take you out. How can you give me a suggestion or how can i ask. Remember that scripture is clear on the fact that a man should be able to lead you. In contrast to what many of us believe, we are not born ready for a godly relationship and need to. If he cant respect that boundarie than thats a red flag. Please consider seeing a marriage counselor. But how can I overcome all this confusion I have on my mind? I want 2 mari dis year, same as he. Thanks Justine.

A relationship is unGodly if it lessens your walk with God. I have understand that he is serious about following Christ. We were best friends since high school , went our separate ways and married other people, weve know each other for 30+years and for over the past 8 years we have been in an emotional long distance relationship. If you dont like him, the answer is clear. Thanks so much for this ma, Ive been really blessed. I would be heartbroken to break it off but as of now cant imagine sleeping together. That said, its very encouraging to read your sharing here. But during the following days he pursued me, wanted to spend time with me one-on-one, messaged me a lot etc. He has a sureness about me and adores me in ways I wish my bf did. Lionel was a good friend of mine and we often hung out together in our larger friendship circle. We moved in together too soon, and I think it caused a lot of anxiety in me because we basically got married without even talking about it. Any advice would be greatly appreciated! He says IDK. I have known my best friend for well over 17 years plus but in that time frame we lost touch for whatever reason we both have married and have kids and recently reconnected earlier this year and since then we have created an emotional bond and there has been a physical and sexual attraction. We comunicated together through social network (facebook). and so far it hasnt. Hi! And please is it everyone that sees signs from God? I see changes but again the doubts pop in my head .. is it fake? To evaluate whether or not he is the one whom God has for you. You will hurt him a lot and that is a horrible thing to do to your brother in Christ. We have been dating for almost three years now.initially after we agreed on dating we were cool.after a while we rarely met in a yearbut we usually talked on phone .He had time for other friends of his but he didnt really have time for me until i confronted him and told him i was going to quit since i realized he didnt love me..he then started putting efforts into the relationship. I would love to see the relationship blossom into something beautiful but, Hi Justine I really love what u wrote, I have someone in my life now and hes asking me to marry him. Thanks for sharing! Or is it all working out perfectly, because were coming to God together? Just maybe, if God had created normal women these days which then many of us good single men would be able to find the one. Hi Haylee sounds to me like your body is telling you what you have been sending all along that he is not the right man for you. Hi Clare, I dont think there is a concrete answer to your problem and I can understand that it is a hard decision to make. As I know its not Godly to be sleeping together out of marriage ,as we are. Let me be patient, he knows what he wants and Im a exactly what he want. He will have similar morals and values and lead a life in which he puts God first. Is it because he is adamant about being single? I pray that you continue in the lord and that he Guides you in knowing and obeying him deeper. Were both nearly 18. So why wait for something that is notyet. Ive known this guy who has been asking me out for over 10 years Ive never been attracted to him physically and I think I will never be but were friends. But we all know how we can give excuses for the person we are interested in and that words of warning can just fly overhead. This guy Im getting to know definitely relates to God the same way I do, and talking to him makes me feel stronger in my faith!

We know that we have something that attracts us but we dont dare to commit. Articles related to signs God wants you to be with someone: If you sincerely prayed for your future husband, sharing our deepest secrets and biggest flaws can be a challenge. Switch your focus to yourself and build up your confidence to attract a man that truly sees value in you. But on a more practical note that should be the moment when you take a mental note Issa Red Flag! The guy is everything i prayed 4 except moneywise. If being with him doesnt compromise your relationship with God, but rather strengthens it. One thing I believe God does when he wants you to be with someone is that he will send you very clear signs of whether or not the other person is the one for you. Which was weird because we just started texting each other and he has never met me just seen a picture. However, in relationships respect is part of the foundation you build on and can make or break it. But now, we have 4 month that dont talk together. One of my favorite quotes is by Maya Angelou and I bet you know it: When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. We live in a time where we can connect with hundreds of people through online dating. So if youre ugly you might as well give it up? He stops calling and texting or goes off the radio for days. He gave me his phone to browse I felt like hes showing off this girl but later he told me theres nothing his hiding from me. Because our own fears and desires are clouding our thoughts. Dear Feroza, as a Muslim you believe that Jesus is only a prophet and not the Son of God and that he was never resurrected. If you are praying to God and asking Him to show you whether the guy you are seeing is the right onefor you and suddenly this same person starts acting up. me an this men dated for 10 years without marraige i overlooked my values for him because of love.he promised to marry me but never did he always said he will hes making enough money. I met someone in a christian site dating. Therefore, one way to tell if he is The One is if the guy you are with possesses the godly characteristics you prayed for. I am now happy being single (nbsb at the age 28) and waiting for Gods best for me. You mentioned him having a first wife. I live my life, it doesnt center around him. Maybe he is really not the one. God bless. It feels like the love and interest are one-sided. Meaning that a dealbreaker is a quality that will irritate you in the long run anyway. Once you identified the signs God wants you to be with someone it still doesnt mean that the relationship will be successful. The man God has for you will make you feel comfortable investing. So, if he doesnt have a plan for your relationship its a sign hes not the one God has for you. I find someone that as all this 10 qualities in him and am convinced physical in me he is the right person but something bothered me, anytime i prayed to lord to show me the right person, i always see a black guy and tall smiling at me with a open teeth and someone telling me, that my husband in my dream but the guy with these quality is a yellow guy and short and doesnt have open teeth am confused. I feel so clouded and unsure. Let him lead with feeling ur protection over us as he protects me and love protect us. He has a desire for sharing gospel with other people. But there is a difference between being Too formal or distant and introducing boundaries. It had only been a week, but it was really bothering me that someone who claimed to follow God spoke this way and never attempted to call or meet me. If it doesnt work, I dont believe you should convince to get married. He puts me first. Over the years theres a lot Ive grown to really prefer and appreciate in him. (I was leaving Guadeloupe about two weeks after that).

You are doing well by protecting her from a distance and entrusting it to the lord. Simple but pivotal. Just go see a counselor if you cant figure it out. A man who is in it for the long run wants to be trustworthy and make sure that hes reliable. Every interaction will be initiated by you and oftentimes every date will be planned by you too. hey there, i recently met a Godly man online, we have chatted for 8 months and met twice. He prayed for me, we talked about scriptures,etc. Your advice was spot on and I feel much better about my shyness. Its one that a lot of women find themselves in. Do you want to be in a healthy relationship or are these signs of a toxic relationship. And what if 2 people dont have the same religion? You are right, what is for you is for you. Anyway, keep us in prayer as we are older and lots of people are getting married older. He stood by me when I was at my worst. Even me I could feel hes Sent by God. There are ways you can practice being a little more outgoing, but never assume that being shy is a bad thing. Life isnt a movie. We are both Christians, but his doctrine is a little different from what I believe. His good qualities are so good. I know this post is old but I wanted to say that you cannot be unequally yoked with someone who doesnt believe in the same doctrine as you, it will cause an issue now I say cause an issue because the man is the head it is important to know that you will then have to convert to his religion and doctrine. It seems like our goals dont align? It was a good moment, but in my head it was a mistake and something I intended to move on from, and not repeat. We go too the same church and all. But he just isnt my type physically. He lives far away, but is willing to drop everything and make it work with me. he reads his devotions. He pursued me, claimed, I am the women he is suppose to marry, etc. One way to know that a man is dating you with intention is if he prioritizes spending time with you every week. We started dating about two months after we met, and were coming up on our third month of being together. . If you arent both Christian, chances are you will have some major conflicts in values. Same for the man that repeatedly keeps showing interest in other women. Too often we think respecting someone only refers to the way we speak to them. Looking back I can see that I was quite lost as a Christian, and definitely wasnt living out my faith. And everything was moving smoothly. Let him know with love and compassion, that you are not interested. We both have feelings for each other but i said Im not looking for anyone when I pray on my alone time n boom this person showed up. Now that I am engaged I have been waking up with unsettling anxiety. That way you will be able to tell early on if the relationship is ordained by God. While I really dont want to encourage any of you to treat God like a genie who will cater tounrealistic expectations of a man. This is really bad. This is absolute trash advice. If one or more of the above scenariosapply to your relationship and deep down you know that man is not Gods best for you. 6 out of 10 is NOT good. Hi I loved these key points and somebody came into my life that fits all of this but the thing concerning me is that I feel like we both are weak in the department of waiting until marriage. An, one way you can know if this relationship is from God is if it lines up with Gods truth in scripture. or maybe just struggling with sin in his life? Thats when he hits you with the Lets just see where this goes and take it slow attitude. Because, believe me, God wont send you someone that corrupts your character or leads you astray. I submit to u god @ and him. Hi Yvette, I can totally understand why you are hesitant. He ghosted and never replied back. Please we should not get confused. He was intrigued by this, shocked also. I am having to find out cultural differences and learning what is cultural and what is his character Read the Bible about how God feels about religion. Because jumping from one relationship to the other, might not even be the best thing to do here. I am experiencing the exact thing. And I could not agree more!

I just came in contact with your blog and what an eye opener for me! I am so glad that I found this. just a question though, say you have such guy who is like this, he is 10yrs older than im and my closest friend, he loves me even and in every way but im not attracted to him like that, i like him as a friend but not in that way. You want to be attentive and aware so that you can date with purpose. Hi Justine I loved your article. Plus, hes the only guy friend Ive spent most of my time with and Im afraid of giving that up to someone else. Her purpose for this site is to help women attract a beautiful, healthy relationship with a great man by teaching self-love, self-worth and self-confidence. Its like wandering through a department store and buying a pair of expensive heels because they look good on the shelf. Now this one is important! The first time he proposed, I rejected it cos I saw him as a brother, he didnt come across as someone Id like to be in a romantic relationship with. Because he said me that dont have peace and waned to hear from God. Thanks for the above write up. In any case of a devoted christian that falls into fornication tempers the relationship. Hi jus,have dated this guy for a yr before I realize he has a kid,his friends keep saying this guy is hiding a lot of things for me.I dont call him but he always calls me these days.l pray God bring me the man he knows is the best for me.Thank you very much . My boyfriend fits all of these. Over the last two months, I have felt disconnected from him and have informed him of some things Id like him to be doing, like going to church regularly. He is clearly attracted to me romantically. To me, a r/ship is unGodly only if it lessens your walk with the Lord. We all know the very popular phrase If a guy likes you, he will make the effort!. I would honestly let him know that you dont believe it was the right decision because you dont see him as a romantic partner but only as a friend. The best way to test that is to observe his actions when hes around you. But i am the one who comes to him when we mess up and tell him how awful i feel. I honestly feel scared to be with him.i just dont know why I have started to pray and intercede because I want God to give me clarity. Instead, strive to maintain a balance between your actions and your faith in God. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); Justine is a certified dating coach who has been blogging onjustinemfulama.comsince 2017. My suggestion is to take it slow. You have to understand that our mind will protect us from anything that harms us, meaning that if you subconsciously fear that he is not good for you and are stressed about it, it will induce stress hormones that can look like anxiety. I am a christian and he claims to be as well. Moreover, remember that God communicates in many forms and will speak to you through your mind, the word, and other believers. Then you may be on to something. I find them to be true. I believe & know we are meant to be. And yes he has ALL of these qualities!

We all know the saying and the movie Hes just not that into you. He prays everyday as I do also, and we are doing Bible studies over the phone whenever we can. Especially then, really. That man wont lose interest and treat you well forever. I want to encourage you that God knows you and knows the man he has for you. But he immediately said he still wanted to see me. You and I have made choices before about people, purchases, and even jobs. He would say its been amazing. Justine is a certified dating coach who has been blogging on justinemfulama.com since 2017. I have also found someone here with the same personalities army boyfriend. Its been a struggle for me to trust him. Hey Nicole, thanks for sharing this.

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